Like it or not, your relationship with your parents will have a lifelong influence on the way you behave with people, move into life, and love your self. If you are lucky, that legacy will be an overwhelmingly positive one. But what happens when you are raised by difficult, negative, abusive parents?

How can you free yourself from that negative legacy?  How can you overcame that pain? How can you stop attracting again and again the same type of dysfunctional people into your life?  Where do your behaviour patterns come from?  Why do you react in certain ways to certain specific situations again and again?

Within your own family, as a child many times you may have felt  abandoned, abused and neglected. In order to avoid this painful situation and to be loved, you tried to be as your parents wanted you to be, adopting their psychological attitudes, emotions, behaviours and beliefs. Often in families you assume roles to hide behind and thus shut off from your authentic self and your true nature.

This how your personality gets formed, how your false Self developed wrapped over your heart in plastic layers of numbness. Now, you still move as false identity, playing roles and attitude when your only longing is to be loved, but unconsciously, you’re re-creating the same painful situations you experienced when you were a child.

In the Primal Process you dig in to your past and open to your painful feelings. You discovered and felt your wounds of not being seen, being misunderstood and not having been accepted as you are. You deeply inquired, cried and screamed your primal pain. In this second step we will go even deeper and reveal the many different layers of the false Self, becoming aware of what life can be like if you could be who you were born to be.