Like it or not, your relationship with your parents will have a lifelong influence on the way you behave with people, moving into life, and loving your self. If you are lucky, that legacy will be an overwhelmingly positive one. But what happens when you are raised by difficult, negative, abusive parents?
How can you free yourself from that negative legacy? How can you overcame that pain ? How can you stop attracting again and again the same type of dysfunctional people into your life? Where do your behaviour patterns come from? Why do you react in certain ways to certain specific situations again and again?
Within your own family, as child many times you may have felt abandoned, abuse and neglected. In order to avoid this painful situation and to be loved, you tried to be as your parent wanted you to be, adopting their psychological attitudes, emotions, behaviours and beliefs. Often in families you assume roles to hide behind and thus shut off from your authentic self and your true nature.
This how your personality get formed, how your false Self developed wrapped over your heart in plastic layers of numbness. Now, you still move as false identity, playing roles and attitude when your only longing is to be loved, but unconsciously, re-creating the same painful situations you had when you were a child.
In the Primal you dig in to your past open to your painful feelings. You felt your wounds of not being seen, understood and accepted as you are. You cried and screamed your Primal Pain. In this second step you will reveal the many layers of the false Self, becoming aware of what life can be like if you could be who you were born to be.
This ten day residential Process, is only for participants who has done previous Primal work, or any other deep childhood de-conditioning work as Freedom Process, Hoffman Process, Pennighann work. You will be in silence and isolation with a limited number of participants.
This Process is not a process like any other process I ever done, and I’ve done a lot. The word that comes to my mind is ‘reset’. Like a deep cleanse. This group give the opportunity to clear every conditioning that doesn’t serve us anymore. With awareness, love, and with deep understanding. That is the real freedom as I see it.
Kamala, Therapist from Israel
I finished the Freedom form the Past three month ago and I am still discovering what this has brought to my life. I am not the same, I have new maturity that I have never had before. I have more trust in myself to stand to whatever comes, open for the adventure of the unknown.
Steve, Engineering (England)
I look back and see that this Process as one of the highest highlights of my life. The Freedom from the Past changed they way I perceive things and empower my presence. I feel that I look at the world and at people from a wider perspective. Now there is no excuse anymore. Vibodha, CEO from Italy
Feel steel backbone in flexible body, in – physical, mental, emotional. That’s the general feeling after the Process. I’m stepping out my limits, breaking old beliefs, trying new things and different ways. Feels like being deeply in to life. And I like it. Sometimes I can feel the old behavior, the old habits, learned from parents relationship, arising. Like trying to control, or blaming, or playing manipulations games to get what I want. It’s a big joy to catch these olds habits, to understand consciously what am I doing now and to change or stop this. I do not know where I will go. I want to take care about today. And today is beautiful, with all the colors from bright to sometimes dark ones. I feel good. This is new for me and I like it. Agne, Manager from Lithuania
This process is not only one of the greatest gifts I gave to my self, it’s also one of the greatest gift I gave to my loved ones. In this process I discovered so much about patterns and pains that I was subjected to from a very young age. They were crystallized issues in my life that prevented me from exploring my potential, from truly expressing myself. After the process, I met my sister and to me and her it felt like we met each other for the first time. When I got back home I had the same experience with my mother. Our connection is more present and more loving than ever I had and I give the credit to what I found through the process. Zion, Engineer from Israel
The biggest fear that I encountered along my path was the fear of being abandoned that clashed with the strong desire to be accepted and loved. These feelings gave me anger, there was a great inability to serenely live a relationship, to relax deeply, to contact my creativity and to express my life force. The dissatisfaction was always so great and I could not understand what I really wanted in my life. Basically I had so much desire to have a healthy relationship with a man and so much rage for not being able to satisfy my longing. I realised that what I really had to do was touch that anger and despite having done all sorts of work on me the dissatisfaction and frustration were still clearly present. I had to touch that rage, give it a shape, a name, a sense.Suddenly after spending days ranting, sweating, writing, cursing against my parents, I felt they were inside me, they were in my lymphatic system, in my cells, in my organs and suddenly a roar came out of my heart. I had contacted the source of my anger. He was there in front of me. I felt my body, exhausted and sweated by days of toil, trembling and vibrating for having touched that dimension. Until then all that rage had created a wall between me and the others, made me apathetic and indifferent, gave my parents the guilt of everything, made me feel inadequate and worthy of love. Suddenly having touched that red mass of rage that was boiling for years inside of me made me feel like a lioness and the wall collapsed. Feeling the rage that I had judged for years made me feel alive, vital, energetic. There was only pure joy that pulsed through my body. There was no longer separation. There was no right or wrong. I was there in all my integrity, beauty, power, intensity. Anger and I were one. This time I was totally my passion. Connecting that vital force within me gave me verticality ‘, immense love and compassion for myself and freedom’.
Madhu Therapist Italy